why human wan to do smthg to make themself suffer?
so called 吃力不讨好..funny rite?
Not to say every time.. but most of d time i will plan some activities for our gangs..
but lately face a lots of problem whenever we have any activities..
really spoil mood..
Dilemma 1-
Most unacceptable de... when this people be ngam wid tat ppl...then have to force to choose 1 among them.. is really bullshit.. always hv to crack head whether choose which one.. ask this one later tat one say be cham.. ask tat one this one say be cham...end up who kena ??haih ... for me honestly i'm ok wid anyone in our gangs... when thing have come to ignoring who and who i really down... really hate ppl say i not ask him out when got any activity.. think tat i purposely dont ask him out..wahhhh.. sien le..
Dilemma 2-
"see 1st" is a vr useful words.. almost everyone will use.. 1 out of 10 say see 1st still ok.. but most of d time is 7 out of 10 say see 1st.. so how??
Dilemma 3-
transportation.. although d organizer himself already volunteer drive his car out.. but then have to think of transportation for else too.. is another headache pro.. must c who like to drive or see who convenient to drive..see who can fetch who la.. some more need to c who close wid who...who sit this car will sien..sit tat car will down...
Dilemma 4-
ffk-ing is usually happen.. nthg much to say..sien d oso
Other than tat.. have to spend time calling.. sms-ing.. and so on.. waste money, waste time, waste energy... if end up most ppls joining and we have fun time together then is ok .. else then really stupid..
Really tired wid all this... frens come out oso have to be so unhappy.
we can know each others prove we gt fake..
we can be in 1 gangs is vr happiness things in our life...
How many close frens can we have in our life?
How easy can we find another groups of frens like us?
Friendship is important and i do appreciate it.
Guys...think about it.. if u been ignored by someone.. go n trace urself.. pls Never ever blame me.. is vr unfair to me and make me bo mood..
sorry for the post of all this moody words...
by Chong Han
6 comments:
downlor... someone chikek u is it? suddenly write so moody post ge? hahahah... but luckily i always say "ok" and not "see first" right? anyway, take it as an experience.. we all appreciate an organiser like u.. if i am the organiser.. i think i already lost my patience and send those sarcastic sms edy...
ya i agree with kevin..
cos i can see nowadays my lao gong really pek cek dy.. he dun even wanna sms k ying gang dy.. so end up.. i sms lo.. but i scare next time it's my turn pulak..
so think about it guys !!!
hahaa..dun too pek chek chong han..relax relax..i believe everyone will also lost their patience if they are in ur position..
"friendship forever" is correct, but it still need something to maintain it, if they think its not worth it to maintain it, we also cant do anything de..rite? ^^
relax... experience mah. Can add to resume organising events. Once everyone work liao no time to go out loh....will be even harder to meet..just take the positive neglect the negative. ;)
Some advice:
Don't make it sound like an obligation or chore and perhaps you can see the other side of the coin.
When you want to be a middle man, be neutral till the end.
You can't always make everyone happy. Utilitarian theory doesn't work all the time.
P/s: Why are you tolerating people who don't tolerate with others? That isn't friendship at all. Just a name of the surface.
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